Go for it. No way! But really, what Pete's saying is something a lot of surveyed guys struggled with: unpacking how girls are feeling, and why. While Colin the amature psychologist has certainly thought a lot about the topic, we're not sure he's cracked the case yet. It's true that because girls are viewed as more emotional, our emotions are seen as more acceptable to express in public, while phrases like, "Man up!
Here's the deal: boys are just as emotional as girls, but a lot of times, they don't show it. That may explain why our guys are so confused about girls' displays of emotions.
Hang in there girl, and remember, there are some things guys just don't get. Rude is the word, actually, Joey. Whispering and gossip can seem pretty immature, especially when you're spreading rumors or being mean to another girl. So don't trash talk or put down other girls to seem cool.
Guys certainly aren't impressed, but more importantly, you don't want to hurt others. Sure, people talk about other people. But there is a big difference between gossip and character assassinations. You wouldn't like it if the gossip was about you.
If you absolutely must exchange information, be discreet. I just feel like I have a spare tire all the time. But here he is worrying about looking like a model. Moral of the story? Boys have body image issues, too.
So, yeah, we feel your pain—and we really mean feel it. Let's face it—the hormones that come with menstruation affect moods and being cranky around your time of the month is beyond understandable. But that doesn't mean you should take our your pain on anyone, much less a guy who doesn't get it. The best thing you can do is take care of yourself.
Just deal the best you can by taking care of yourself. Avoid things that aggravate physical and emotional symptoms like caffeine, sugar and greasy foods. Ever wondered what your cravings mean? We've got all the answers. But seriously, get plenty of sleep, drink loads of water, get some exercise and take lots of warm baths—yes, even in the afternoon when you get home from school.
No lengthy, drawn-out explanations necessary. The truth is, you're a way harsher critic of yourself than a guy will ever be. Guys can't tell slight differences between sizes, and honestly, they don't really care. All guys have different tastes when it comes to the feminine physique. Some guys like booties. Other guys like their girls thin as a fence post. Who cares? You are what you are.
Worry more about your own health and happiness and less of guys' opinions on your looks. Need some self-image pick-me-ups?
Check out some of our recommendations here. Trust me when I say they notice this. Both are things guys like to see a lot of and their absence is equally noticeable. Most guys I know go a little bit crazy over the way a girl smells — perfume or otherwise.
Speaking from experience, I can tell you that what guys notice in women is if they are hostile towards men. Go figure, right? Ossiana Tepfenhart is a writer based out of Red Bank, New Jersey, who writes primarily about lifestyle, food, finance, and relationships.
Find her on Twitter for more. Sign in. Join YourTango Experts. Photo: Getty. Guys who prefer dumb girls are the manipulative type. In reality, guys like girls who are simply beautiful. Meaning, she can own her beauty with little makeup and accessories. Confidence You need to have confidence. Start working on that confidence and get it sky high if you want to start attracting more guys. Those girls pick fights easily and are usually high maintenance and stuck up — something all guys dread.
Guys want a girl who can just relax with him and someone who has a go-with-the-flow attitude. Playfulness Being playful and ready to have a great time is a super attractive quality in a girl.
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